@ALittleBird, bro had just read my mind word for word. Want they lack is communication..and it’s annoying. Argh! I can already tell this is gonna be a slow burn
He’s got trauma – no argument. But in her past life he inflicted trauma on her, to protect her or not, there was no way for her to know why the man she loved treated her like crap – because he never told her. Now he is trying to force her into a situation she has repeatedly said no to. He’s adding to the trauma, he may not mean to be, but he’s toxic to her.
Agreed, I understand the FL’s mistrust and pain caused by the ML. We can all sympathize, while also remembering that she isn’t a completely reliable narrator as most of that part of the story has been told from her perspective. But she doesn’t have all of the information. There are always 2 or more sides. For the ML, he was crazy in love with her even in their past life however he was being used and experimented on in Korea. His love for the FL was his weakness there and they were using her to keep him under control. He felt he had no other way to keep her safe from them, but to act coldly towards her and trick everyone into thinking he didn’t care. However, he would get worried and freak out whenever she wasn’t right where he could see and protect her. He was also constantly worried that he would be dragged back to his old dimension and be separated from her. Not saying that his treatment was justified. But simply that there’s more to it. I don’t think he’s necessarily trash, it’s just everyone has a lot they need to heal from. ML is just overly happy to be reunited in his world where he has power and influence without having to experience the pain and problems the government brought to their relationship, meanwhile not thinking about the pain and emotions his actions to protect her caused. Which is all completely due to the fact that both in this life and their last they haven’t been properly communicating with eachother how they feel or what the plan is. From the beginning if Ciel had just told her his true feelings and that he was only acting cold to protect her… a lot of these problems wouldn’t be happening… but you know… a story needs conflict in some way so here we are lol. Also, the FL keeps referring to this world as one from a book she read and expecting the ML to act and feel certain ways based off of it. I’m totally just guessing, but considering how things have been going my spidey senses are wondering if that book is to be trusted.
@aish dehann
So true. But the reason I was hating him bc of his obsessive with the FL. If he just took it down a notch it would be nice. Like I understand he loves her but don’t forget bout her feelings too you know. Also I really do hope they talk and work it out. It’s pretty clear that there wasn’t much communication between them.
the people who r hating the ml need i remind you why he was cold to the fl??? he was tricked by the saint and then brought to the human world. he had to stay here against his wishes all cause of the betrayal he faced. it was hard for him to trust another human including the fl but he cared for her and didnt want what happened to him to happen to her, thats why he was so doting and controlling over her. if u r all seeing the pain of the fl, see the PAIN OF ML TOO. HE IS FAR FAR BETTER THAN SOMEONE OF THE ML’s u readers go crazy over. he neither deceived the fl, nor raised his hands. he was a victim too
KELEX_05
@Aish Dehann. So true! I know already why ML was cold to FL due to the priestess betrayal to ML.
Stellarine09
@Aish Dehann. So true, better words have not been spoken. So please y’all should stop hating on him 😭😭
Stellarine09
@ALittleBird, bro had just read my mind word for word. Want they lack is communication..and it’s annoying. Argh! I can already tell this is gonna be a slow burn
Kspellsong
He’s got trauma – no argument. But in her past life he inflicted trauma on her, to protect her or not, there was no way for her to know why the man she loved treated her like crap – because he never told her. Now he is trying to force her into a situation she has repeatedly said no to. He’s adding to the trauma, he may not mean to be, but he’s toxic to her.
ALittleBird
Agreed, I understand the FL’s mistrust and pain caused by the ML. We can all sympathize, while also remembering that she isn’t a completely reliable narrator as most of that part of the story has been told from her perspective. But she doesn’t have all of the information. There are always 2 or more sides. For the ML, he was crazy in love with her even in their past life however he was being used and experimented on in Korea. His love for the FL was his weakness there and they were using her to keep him under control. He felt he had no other way to keep her safe from them, but to act coldly towards her and trick everyone into thinking he didn’t care. However, he would get worried and freak out whenever she wasn’t right where he could see and protect her. He was also constantly worried that he would be dragged back to his old dimension and be separated from her. Not saying that his treatment was justified. But simply that there’s more to it. I don’t think he’s necessarily trash, it’s just everyone has a lot they need to heal from. ML is just overly happy to be reunited in his world where he has power and influence without having to experience the pain and problems the government brought to their relationship, meanwhile not thinking about the pain and emotions his actions to protect her caused. Which is all completely due to the fact that both in this life and their last they haven’t been properly communicating with eachother how they feel or what the plan is. From the beginning if Ciel had just told her his true feelings and that he was only acting cold to protect her… a lot of these problems wouldn’t be happening… but you know… a story needs conflict in some way so here we are lol. Also, the FL keeps referring to this world as one from a book she read and expecting the ML to act and feel certain ways based off of it. I’m totally just guessing, but considering how things have been going my spidey senses are wondering if that book is to be trusted.
Alpha_Islander
@aish dehann
So true. But the reason I was hating him bc of his obsessive with the FL. If he just took it down a notch it would be nice. Like I understand he loves her but don’t forget bout her feelings too you know. Also I really do hope they talk and work it out. It’s pretty clear that there wasn’t much communication between them.
crazyred
@aish dehann agreed
Xavistic
@Aish Dehann you bitches should learn from Aish before commenting something DIPSHIT people
Im_purple
@Aish Dehann – Tysm for the reminder I was really hating him
LennyTheHopeless
Oh I see, so guiding can look innocent in front of the parents hehe 😜
the biggest simp of every decade
@Aish Dehann. point
Aish Dehann
the people who r hating the ml need i remind you why he was cold to the fl??? he was tricked by the saint and then brought to the human world. he had to stay here against his wishes all cause of the betrayal he faced. it was hard for him to trust another human including the fl but he cared for her and didnt want what happened to him to happen to her, thats why he was so doting and controlling over her. if u r all seeing the pain of the fl, see the PAIN OF ML TOO. HE IS FAR FAR BETTER THAN SOMEONE OF THE ML’s u readers go crazy over. he neither deceived the fl, nor raised his hands. he was a victim too