@kittenbee as someone who read the entire novel she actualy did prefer not to know and later on in the story she admits it herself.She knew from chapter 14 (the chap where Catherine was outside their gates) that there was things that she was not aware of and she did not make any effort to know about the evils her father did either because she was afraid.She wanted to live in her own happy little circle even she she knew deep in her that not of it was reality .She even says this later on in the story that she wanted to hide herself from all the pain because she didn’t want to know all of this as it would’ve caused a dent in her happy privileged life. Which is one of the reasons why she is a nurse now not because she blames her self for her father’s evildoers but because she blames herself for being indifferent to everything.
I’m glad Annette finally realises all the sacrifices Heiner endured, especially for her sake!
Also, it’s incredible to see her have to power to apologize. Even more because it wasn’t her fault directly but her father’s. Of course she’s also at fault for being willingly ignorant but she’s learning to accept that mistake and move forward with her life while assuming responsibility. Truly inspiring!
It’s understandable tho… how she was clueless about his struggles back then because she was raised like a princess, never see he other side of the world. Also the ml mentality because he never feel loved and he received torture for years since he was still young.
I understand because my grandpa grew up in ‘military’ mentality.
What they did are wrong but all of their feelings are valid.
I still think the same thing
They most fault to blame is Annette Father
But if we talking about couple of marriage , of course they both are fault
Annette grow up in most glamor life, She just naive girl , lucky to be married with someone her love and love her
Remember what happen to Kathryn, she just ignore it. Until the gun shoot issues
She’s not psychic, how she spouse to be know what happened to Heiner
About Heiner I feel sorry for him , But he’s obsessed with revenge and put to the wrong person it’s mean to Annette
Also for Annette as his wife , She’s never try to Ask, touch or comforting him
@Viixenwitch Lmao I just noticed that everyone before me said pretty much the same, sorry for repeating but yeah, it’s not Annette’s fault, she deserves to be a happy without any sense of guilt.
@Viixenwitch, the problem is that it was never stated that she preferred not to know, you see, he was obsessed with her and made a conclusion she doesn’t care and he didn’t even bother to explain to her what he and his comrades went through, he decided she should be punished because she didn’t expressed her morn towards fallen soldiers more emotionally. It was literally because of one fuckin misunderstanding. And I don’t blame her, because she was literally born in high class family, it’s not her fault for not understanding what war is. The fact that she’s now a nurse proves that she’s was a good person all this time, she’s capable of character development and has a strong spirit and didn’t deserve all the shit from Heiner. (no one deserves that kind of treatment obviously). That’s why I’m saying that her thinking of that it’s her fault for her misery is complete bullshit. She didn’t chose to be a daughter of asshole and to be obsessed by broken psycho.
Ppl be switching up so fast, the first comment said they now feel bad for the ml? Sure his past was really bad but Annette did not know ml was interested in her like that cuz he just said a few words..? Also we’re basically throwing Annette’s trauma out the door just because of the ml’s past, like I’m sorry but what do u expect Annette to do about her father? Her father and her are not the same people and Annette was kept in the dark a lot.. Tapping into what I previously said, if a guy liked me for years and years and I didn’t know what he went through in the past I wouldn’t rlly wanna touch up on that subject in case it might hurt him but ofc the ml took it the wrong way and used his trauma to put the fl into hell. Also don’t get me started on him gaslighting her..
honestly- hats off to annette’s mental health. imagine all the things she is going through out of a sudden. i am not telling that weiner didnt. but the shits he did- his mentality- nah- annette is one of the fl i look up to. look how she is trying to make up to her arz father’s act. she didnt know bro- I MEAN WHO TF WOULD DOUBT A PERFECT LOVELY FATHER would do cruel to others. she was raised like that. she was raised carefully that she knew nothing. i pity weiner for the sh*ts he went though. but everyone targetting annette like- i understand them they are angry and annette is the offspring of the one who made em suffer. honestly at this point. except weiner’s half mentality everyone is this mahwa is a victim. anette is the main one. she suffered enough bro leave her alone. i rarely suppourt fl’s. but annette- i give full suppout
I don’t blame her. How was she supposed to know when they were at their happiest, he was a bloody good actor.. Once the revolution happened she lost everyone, found out her once “beloved” father was actually a disgusting pos, her mother committed suicide and the love of her life was a lie, not to mention everyone basically wanted her dead. During that time they both weren’t in a good place and she even tried to kill herself a few times, when was she supposed to pry into his past?
She is trying to atone for her father’s sins and her ignorance, yet you still want to blame her? To say she should be regretting it now is funny to me, because I’m pretty sure she already regrets it. Also, she only ever blamed him for what he did to her. Just because you go through trauma it doesn’t give you the right to inflict it on innocents. Imagine if her father went through the same shit as the ml, would you excuse his actions? Of course not. I feel for them both.
You are wrong this time KittenBee. He went through years of hell and she didn’t even ask because she preffered not to know. From his pov it was as she didn’t care what’s he went through just like her father
erica7
My poor Heiner has been through so much since a young age. I hope Annette will accept him now. May God bless them with happiness..🥺
erica7
Ohh my heart 😭💔
Anvitajerome
@kittenbee as someone who read the entire novel she actualy did prefer not to know and later on in the story she admits it herself.She knew from chapter 14 (the chap where Catherine was outside their gates) that there was things that she was not aware of and she did not make any effort to know about the evils her father did either because she was afraid.She wanted to live in her own happy little circle even she she knew deep in her that not of it was reality .She even says this later on in the story that she wanted to hide herself from all the pain because she didn’t want to know all of this as it would’ve caused a dent in her happy privileged life. Which is one of the reasons why she is a nurse now not because she blames her self for her father’s evildoers but because she blames herself for being indifferent to everything.
Wavegirl
I’m glad Annette finally realises all the sacrifices Heiner endured, especially for her sake!
Also, it’s incredible to see her have to power to apologize. Even more because it wasn’t her fault directly but her father’s. Of course she’s also at fault for being willingly ignorant but she’s learning to accept that mistake and move forward with her life while assuming responsibility. Truly inspiring!
Sweetvity
It’s understandable tho… how she was clueless about his struggles back then because she was raised like a princess, never see he other side of the world. Also the ml mentality because he never feel loved and he received torture for years since he was still young.
I understand because my grandpa grew up in ‘military’ mentality.
What they did are wrong but all of their feelings are valid.
RavenSchofield
I still think the same thing
They most fault to blame is Annette Father
But if we talking about couple of marriage , of course they both are fault
Annette grow up in most glamor life, She just naive girl , lucky to be married with someone her love and love her
Remember what happen to Kathryn, she just ignore it. Until the gun shoot issues
She’s not psychic, how she spouse to be know what happened to Heiner
About Heiner I feel sorry for him , But he’s obsessed with revenge and put to the wrong person it’s mean to Annette
Also for Annette as his wife , She’s never try to Ask, touch or comforting him
KittenBee
@Viixenwitch Lmao I just noticed that everyone before me said pretty much the same, sorry for repeating but yeah, it’s not Annette’s fault, she deserves to be a happy without any sense of guilt.
KittenBee
@Viixenwitch, the problem is that it was never stated that she preferred not to know, you see, he was obsessed with her and made a conclusion she doesn’t care and he didn’t even bother to explain to her what he and his comrades went through, he decided she should be punished because she didn’t expressed her morn towards fallen soldiers more emotionally. It was literally because of one fuckin misunderstanding. And I don’t blame her, because she was literally born in high class family, it’s not her fault for not understanding what war is. The fact that she’s now a nurse proves that she’s was a good person all this time, she’s capable of character development and has a strong spirit and didn’t deserve all the shit from Heiner. (no one deserves that kind of treatment obviously). That’s why I’m saying that her thinking of that it’s her fault for her misery is complete bullshit. She didn’t chose to be a daughter of asshole and to be obsessed by broken psycho.
Dazai66
Ppl be switching up so fast, the first comment said they now feel bad for the ml? Sure his past was really bad but Annette did not know ml was interested in her like that cuz he just said a few words..? Also we’re basically throwing Annette’s trauma out the door just because of the ml’s past, like I’m sorry but what do u expect Annette to do about her father? Her father and her are not the same people and Annette was kept in the dark a lot.. Tapping into what I previously said, if a guy liked me for years and years and I didn’t know what he went through in the past I wouldn’t rlly wanna touch up on that subject in case it might hurt him but ofc the ml took it the wrong way and used his trauma to put the fl into hell. Also don’t get me started on him gaslighting her..
the biggest simp of every decade
honestly- hats off to annette’s mental health. imagine all the things she is going through out of a sudden. i am not telling that weiner didnt. but the shits he did- his mentality- nah- annette is one of the fl i look up to. look how she is trying to make up to her arz father’s act. she didnt know bro- I MEAN WHO TF WOULD DOUBT A PERFECT LOVELY FATHER would do cruel to others. she was raised like that. she was raised carefully that she knew nothing. i pity weiner for the sh*ts he went though. but everyone targetting annette like- i understand them they are angry and annette is the offspring of the one who made em suffer. honestly at this point. except weiner’s half mentality everyone is this mahwa is a victim. anette is the main one. she suffered enough bro leave her alone. i rarely suppourt fl’s. but annette- i give full suppout
Saber2341
I don’t blame her. How was she supposed to know when they were at their happiest, he was a bloody good actor.. Once the revolution happened she lost everyone, found out her once “beloved” father was actually a disgusting pos, her mother committed suicide and the love of her life was a lie, not to mention everyone basically wanted her dead. During that time they both weren’t in a good place and she even tried to kill herself a few times, when was she supposed to pry into his past?
She is trying to atone for her father’s sins and her ignorance, yet you still want to blame her? To say she should be regretting it now is funny to me, because I’m pretty sure she already regrets it. Also, she only ever blamed him for what he did to her. Just because you go through trauma it doesn’t give you the right to inflict it on innocents. Imagine if her father went through the same shit as the ml, would you excuse his actions? Of course not. I feel for them both.
Vixenthewitch
You are wrong this time KittenBee. He went through years of hell and she didn’t even ask because she preffered not to know. From his pov it was as she didn’t care what’s he went through just like her father
KittenBee
Ffs, that’s not her fault and it will never be, stop thinking that you ruined your life yourself, it’s simply an absolute lie
GodwinDuke
Yeah regretting now aren’t you FL. Have you ever poked into your father’s past. You always blamed ML and judged him. Now I feel bad for the ML.