It’s a defensive mechanism. She said that with a double purpose. One is so she would not expect things and afraid to get hurt again. The other one is to give him a choice not to take responsibility for her. So ML needs to be more proactive in this kind of relationship. She needs time to move on.
her ex is not a good person but she not a good person either. the ”oh but she doesnt want to get hurt”, is not an excuse for stringing him along. if it was 32 y.o man playing mind games and testing a 24y.o, i bet the opinions would be very different
It’s naturally for her
She’s just don’t want to get hurt anymore
That’s why she’s still draw the line between you
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Don’t give up kiddo
Of course better you than Kang Mincheol
The men’s different tactics are interesting. Mincheol was successful because he cheerfully stomped past her walls and settled in to stay. The benefit of this was a quick bond that was very solid and comfortable while Mincheol remained secure that she liked him, but which became shaken when he lost confidence since she isn’t expressive. This guy is using a push-pull withdrawal method. He pushes past her walls, drops some emotional stuff, and then retreats back in the hopes that she’ll be lured out. The cost of this is that it doesn’t always work and he has to keep returning to breach the walls again and retreat again and hope she’ll follow him out just little bit further in order to get another hit of his attention; This method also means she is insecure and off balance: she cannot tell if he likes her or means what he says, which gives her anxiety. But the benefit is that (if it works) it will break some of her worse habits of not communicating and being passive.
There’s also the aspect of her still coming off her sole relationship that ended in with him stepping out along with his age and her not knowing much about him. He’s going at her pace and her sole experience in relationship is Mincheol so on some level, she’s waiting for him to push like her ex did and retreating because of the mentioned insecurity and being off balance.
shoyo_thefirst2
Hold up he was a virgin?!?!?!?!?!
Downbadsimp
@cocoroco has no understanding of how human coping mechanism works haha
azuremacro
It’s a defensive mechanism. She said that with a double purpose. One is so she would not expect things and afraid to get hurt again. The other one is to give him a choice not to take responsibility for her. So ML needs to be more proactive in this kind of relationship. She needs time to move on.
cocoroco
her ex is not a good person but she not a good person either. the ”oh but she doesnt want to get hurt”, is not an excuse for stringing him along. if it was 32 y.o man playing mind games and testing a 24y.o, i bet the opinions would be very different
RavenSchofield
It’s naturally for her
She’s just don’t want to get hurt anymore
That’s why she’s still draw the line between you
.
Don’t give up kiddo
Of course better you than Kang Mincheol
Ninah krista
OMG 🥰🥰😍😍😍😍
Pretty Art
Omggg bro give her his FIRST 🧎♀️➡️🧎♀️➡️🧎♀️➡️😩😩
snowmoon
oohhh…. why~? why aren’t you coming home~? 😂
Skite
The men’s different tactics are interesting. Mincheol was successful because he cheerfully stomped past her walls and settled in to stay. The benefit of this was a quick bond that was very solid and comfortable while Mincheol remained secure that she liked him, but which became shaken when he lost confidence since she isn’t expressive. This guy is using a push-pull withdrawal method. He pushes past her walls, drops some emotional stuff, and then retreats back in the hopes that she’ll be lured out. The cost of this is that it doesn’t always work and he has to keep returning to breach the walls again and retreat again and hope she’ll follow him out just little bit further in order to get another hit of his attention; This method also means she is insecure and off balance: she cannot tell if he likes her or means what he says, which gives her anxiety. But the benefit is that (if it works) it will break some of her worse habits of not communicating and being passive.
PotatoRoots
There’s also the aspect of her still coming off her sole relationship that ended in with him stepping out along with his age and her not knowing much about him. He’s going at her pace and her sole experience in relationship is Mincheol so on some level, she’s waiting for him to push like her ex did and retreating because of the mentioned insecurity and being off balance.
Brujita
Post.faster.please.
Yourbeans
NOO NOW I GOTTA WAIT NEXT WEEK FOR A SPICY CHAPTER TOOO COME OUT AHHHHH
Giligili
Why has the art changed???????? It’s like it’s opaque….not like before…do u guys agree with me?
the biggest simp of every decade
DADDY’S HERE. WHY ONLY 2 PANNEL *SNIFF SNIFF*